Category Addiction Issues

Always Turned On

Always Turned on
By Robert Weiss and Jennifer P. Schneider
Gentle Path Press
Retail Price $18.95
Amazon Price: $14.74

Book Description: 

Technology has significantly changed our world. Sexual imagery and encounters can now be accessed anywhere, anytime, using portable electronic devices. Users can generate a stream of graphic pornography, a wide variety of virtual sexual activities, and casual, anonymous, or paid-for sexual encounters with a click or a tap. Simply put, we have greater access to highly stimulating sexual content, and potential sexual partners, with much less built-in accountability. Porn addicts are especially vulnerable to the lure of digital technology and the seemingly endless array of stimulation it provides.

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Conquering Shame and Codependency

Conquering Shame and Codependency
By Darlene Lancer
Hazelden  – Claire@clairemckinneypry.com
Retail Price $14.95
Amazon Price: $9.45

Book Description: 

A nationally recognized author and codependency expert examines the roots of shame and its connection with codependent relationships. Learn how to heal from their destructive hold by implementing eight steps that will empower the real you, and lead to healthier relationships.

Shame: the torment you feel when you’re exposed, humiliated, or rejected; the feeling of not being good enough. It’s a deeply painful and universal emotion, yet is not frequently discussed. For some, shame lurks in the unconscious, undermining self-esteem, destroying confidence, and leading to codependency. These codependent relationships—where we overlook our own needs and desires as we try to care for, protect, or please another—often cover up abuse, addiction, or other harmful behaviors. Shame and codependency feed off one another, making us feel stuck, never able to let go, move on, and become the true self we were meant to be.
In Conquering Shame and Codependency, Darlene Lancer sheds new light on shame: how codependents’ feelings and beliefs about shame affect their identity, their behavior, and how shame can corrode relationships, destroying trust and love. She then provides eight steps to heal from shame, learn to love yourself, and develop healthy relationships.

Review

This very insightful book changed my life. It’s amazing how many people still don’t understand codependency, even when it is consuming them and those they love. The need to fix others is always easier than accepting we are codependent and need help ourselves. Like addiction, once a codependent, always a codependent.  Anyone who feels that the quality of their life is dependent upon someone else’s condition needs to read this book. Even if you’ve removed yourself from the situation, this book provides insight to help you recognize codependent behaviors and thoughts so that you can change your ways and move on to a happy way of life.  This book will show you how to control codependency so it doesn’t control you.

~Reviewed by Deb M.

~Reviewed by Terry G.

 

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